Just Two Front Doors

Approach my home from either side and it looks like the front door.  Oh yes, the one that faces the street, it’s called Hawk’s Eye Drive, is welcoming to guests, family, and the two of us after a trip away.

On the other side is a fairway.  It’s called number 6. It too is welcoming to golf balls, the morning sound of mowers and many little birds.  It also welcomes the sun each morning with the promises of the new day.

So, why no back door?  I guess a back door is not only a real difference from a front door in almost every place on earth, here the difference is in the mind.  As a kid growing up, the back yard was full of life; a garden, a play yard, a sand box, my almost real train engine, and mother’s twice weekly wash hanging on the line.  Wind and solar energy did the trick. It was renewable and sustainable.  Can’t beat that.

The front yard was full of life too.  Passing walkers, cars, and jump rope right in the middle. Hopscotch too with colored chalk.  In winter snowball fights, street hockey, and shovels nearby. And passersby with scarves, boots, and heads turned away from the blowing snow.

So both doors were often the same.  People.

More people now, on fairway number six, go by each day than will ever go by on the street.  Two hundred golfers.  Ten to fifteen cars on the drive.  Things have been reversed.  Hundreds went by on the street so many years ago where we lived as kids.  Only the few friends and neighbors went by in the “back yard”. Now the friends come in through the front and the passersby on the golf course go one way only.

So, despite one side being opposite from the other, no real back door.  Just two front doors.

About calumetkid

Born in 1943, Calumet, Michigan. Love baseball, trains, chess, Lake Superior, the Law. State Trooper, Lawyer, Retired.
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7 Responses to Just Two Front Doors

  1. Teresa Kaye says:

    I like the idea of two front doors–it changes the mindset because back doors often have negative connotations. The ending description also reflects the passage of time and how we (and our surroundings) change, and then the cycle begins again. I stayed in one neighborhood in the past long enough to see that cycle be repeated 3x!

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  2. gepawh says:

    Ah, excellent insight. “Friends and neighbors” only through the back door, the rest are as you state, innocuous interlopers, going one way.

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  3. cocowriter says:

    Watch out for those flying golf balls out back! We lived on a golf course in Ohio and it was treacherous. Good piece, reminding me of bygone days in Ohio.

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  4. pales62 says:

    This excellent piece, alas, has confused me. I have no front or back door – just one the side.

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    • calumetkid says:

      I thought I might confuse but maybe it was my goal. Back doors seem to have a lesser status but that, in my case, was really not true. Good and bad both front and back. It’s all in the mind.😇

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  5. “Just two front doors” – how more welcoming could that be? Thanks for the memories. When I was little, the only people who came in by the front door were the minister and the Fuller Brush salesman. Friends and family came in the back, unlocked door and just yelled, “I’m here” so they wouldn’t scare us if we didn’t hear them come in. Good piece!

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