A Promise to Keep

Claire remembers the day her best friend, Elaine, noticed a lump in her breast while she was showering.  The next week seemed like a year before the doctor told Elaine that the biopsy confirmed the tumor was malignant.

Claire and Elaine began their solid friendship in high school when they we’re sorority sisters.  They confided their teenage dreams and traumas to each other and often double dated.  After college, they were in each other’s wedding parties.

Elaine was now married with two children, 8 and 5 years old.  Her doctor advised her to have a radical masectomy which would be followed by a few months of chemotherapy to make sure they eradicated any hidden cancer cells.  Thinking only of her family, Elaine followed the doctor’s advice.

After recovering from the masectomy, the chemo treatments took a toll on Elaine, both physically and mentally.  She was minus a breast and now her hair was falling out.  Claire often spent time consoling her while Elaine’s husband was at work.  Elaine showed Claire the ugly scar running across her flat chest.  Elaine’s husband accepted this disfiguration and was just anxious that his wife make a full recovery.

Elaine had trouble accepting her bald head even if it was only temporary.  A woman’s hair often defines her self image.  She could only afford a synthetic wig which really did look like a wig.

And now it was time for Claire’s appointment.  Her chestnut  colored  hair had always been shoulder length.  It was worthy of the many compliments she received on its rich sheen and silkiness.  What would she look like without long hair?  She had already begun to quiver.

Claire had made a secret promise to God, that if Elaine got through her ordeal, Claire would donate her long hair to “Locks of Love” which uses real hair to make wigs for cancer patients.  She was now outside of the hair salon.

Claire, Claire, it’s time.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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8 Responses to A Promise to Keep

  1. lynteach8 says:

    A fine story.

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  2. santeach says:

    To make a sacrifice for a friend, to show compassion and understanding nourish the stricken. I know women who have given their cherished tresses to “Locks of Love”, such a loving gesture.

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  3. Teresa Kaye says:

    I have too many friends who have faced this challenge and I think they would say with me that you have captured much of the angst that goes with the struggle for someone who actually has the cancer, for their friends, and for finding ways to share in the struggle!

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  4. marcsacher says:

    Well done. And speaks to the fact that we often get involved when problems involve us on a personal level — primarily family and close friends.

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  5. normestrin says:

    This is an important, accurate well-writtenstory. My cousin, Maureen O’Hara faced a similar diagnosis and chose to remove both breasts. She did her research and found that there is a device called “Cold Cap” that rented equipment that allows the patient to apply very cold dry ice to keep the head cold during chemotherapy. this results in little or no hair falling out. This device was not FDA cleared at the time but, on July 3, 2017, the Food and Drug Administration cleared the expanded use of a cooling cap, DigniCap Cooling System, to reduce hair loss (alopecia) during chemotherapy. This is the first cooling cap cleared by the agency for use in cancer patients with solid tumors. Tell everyone you know about it!

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  6. jrowe2328 says:

    Well told act of true friendship!

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  7. gepawh says:

    A clever and very realistic tale. You capture Claire”s ambiguity and commitment well.

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