When teenage adolescence arrived without much prior notice, I suddenly took notice. I noticed many things I did not have. I noticed that I did not have a motor scooter, a red Cushman in fact, that some of my friends had. I was jealous of them but not of it. Later, I noticed a brand spanking new Chevy Corvette, 1953 model, white with red interior. That was easily the neatest car I ever saw. Might still be. I envied the owner. He had a good job, bought it right out of college, and boy did I like his car.
But I had things too. I had a Harvey Kuenn model Wilson baseball glove. It was the best glove in the world, just ask me. It was better than the Nellie Fox model even though it cost 5 dollars more than mine. So there, be jealous of my glove, ha!
In 1969 I got my Corvette to eliminate that envy that hung around for sixteen years. But it’s gone now. I never got the scooter. The desire is gone now.
Now, that time has gone by and so many things came about that I could not have, I realize that I never needed them in the first place. I have a fine family, children, and the most lovable grand children anywhere. So any envy or jealousy I have had has been at least equalized if not exceeded by the rest of life. Things come and go. Relationships live on and on.
I love your conclusion. There speaks a wise man!
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Indeed! The great lesson your words and life itself teach us is: things are things and dreams come and go, but life and love (family) are infinite!
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